good friend could be the worst enemy

hey my blog! a 'place' where i post my thoughts or anything i want :)
today i wanna share my experience.
and it's about bullying.
have you ever being a victim of bullying ?
if your answer is yes, so we have one thing in common cuz i've ever got bullying too.
and the worse fact is i got it when i was in elementary school. so damn bad right?
how can the bullies are still children?cause the bullies are usually teenager.
but this is the fact!
i will tell it to you who are visiting my blog and read this post.

okay, now i'm 18 years old. and this bad thing happened to me when i was about 11 or 12 years old.
so it happened in 6-7 years ago.
actually i'm "easy to forgive hard to forget" person.
but it doesnt mean that i'm a spiteful person, but i just can't forget all bad things that i've ever got.
firstly i wanna define what does bullying  mean.


as i got from http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/bully.htm


Bullying is persistent unwelcome behaviour, mostly using unwarranted or invalid criticism, nit-picking, fault-finding, also exclusion, isolation, being singled out and treated differently, being shouted at, humiliated, excessive monitoring, having verbal and written warnings imposed, and much more. In the workplace, bullying usually focuses on distorted or fabricated allegations of underperformance.

so my experience may not define as bullying but also can't define as a little disturbance since i  who ever got it thinks that it cant defined as a little disturbance which done by your 'friends'.


okay let me tell you about that.
i was in sixth grade in elementary school. sixth grade is the highest grade in elementary school in indonesia. and it means if we wanna continue to junior high school we have to pass national exam first. 
at that grade, i have some friends. i was the smartest person at my class ( doesn't mean to compliment my self, but i just wanna give you the fact). i have some girl friends. and a few of them are the bullies.
first i wanna explain why it happened. two friends of mine are the evidence. just call them as C and R.

on the left is C, and on the right is R.

  
my elementary school was at a school complex that consists of 4 schools.4 schools are SDN melayu 4, melayu 9, melayu 3, and melayu 2. and my school was SDN Melayu 4. okay continue to my story. C and R are like most of another 'almost teenager' people have their Puppy Love. their puppy love are pupils at SDN melayu 9. C's puppy love is a little bit cute guy. he was used to wear a hat on his head. C and R introduced me to him. i can't lie my self, he's a lil' bit cute. but it doesnt mean that i have a crush on him. just interested, ok?
ok, just call him as W. and then W and I were a lil'' bit more closer. and it made C got jealous to me. then C and R got angry to me. at the beginning they just ignored me. but each day their way to treat me gone to be worse than ever. they embarrased me, they shouted to pupils in melayu 9 who were opposite of us. they told everyone who are pupils at melayu 9 that i loved W. while honestly i didnt!

each day their way treating me was gone worse. every day they said bad names to me.  they asked people to not make friends with me. and then i became a person without any friends by my side. but i was still be patient, hope that they would be better to me someday, wish they would say sorry to me.

luckily i still have two friends whose named as Eka and Yanti. the pic below is Eka's pic, i can't find Yanti's.

and then they (C and R) became so unreasonable.they hidden my book which i need to  learn. the book is really needed for me. i have a book which called as LKS and it's for exercise to face national exam. but they were so dare to me. they were so mean to me. they hidden it when i went out the class to buy something to eat or drink during the break time. after that the bell rang. we had to go back to our class. and then  when the lesson started, and the LKS is needed to learn, i couldnt find it in my bag. while i was so sure that i brought it on that day. and the teacher asked me, "do you bring it wina?"
and i said, "i'm so sure i bring it, but i couldnt find it ma'am and i dont know why."
then the teacher said,"just say that you dont bring it, dont give a reason."
i just kept silent. i was so sure about that.
then i borrowed my friend's LKS , and i copied it. 
and after more than one week i learn with the LKS in fotocopy version, my friend whose named is Yanti told me that on that day i lost the LKS she saw C and R took something in my bag. and hide it in drawer of teacher's desk. i opened it directly and i found my LKS. i found that!
since the day i really hate them! i couldnt believe that people who were good friends could be the worst enemies.
  then, on the graduation day R said sorry to me. i forgive her but i couldnt forget what she has done to me. unfortunately C didnt.

as the pic on left side said SAY NO TO BULLYING. if you're the bullies , please stop it. you may not realize how much misery you made to the victims.






this is my story, how about yours?