Sabtu, 24 Desember 2011

A little thing called love

have you ever watch 'Crazy Little Thing Called Love?'
some of you may say : ' YES, YES! THAT'S A REALLY SWEET MOVIE!"
but some of you may say : 'nope'.

well, actually this movie is worth to watch! that's a movie that could reflects true story based on everyone's. i've already watch it 5 times and i've never got bored! \(^o^)/
First Love (A Little Thing Called Love) (Thai: สิ่งเล็กเล็ก ที่เรียกว่า..รัก) (Sing leklek Tee reak wa... Rak), better known as Crazy Little Thing Called Love, is a 2010 Thai romantic comedy film and also a 2011 Asian sleeper hit film starring Mario Maurer and Pimchanok Luevisadpaibul. (source : www.wikipedia.com)
this is the poster of that movie.



and these picture belows are the main casts. Mario Maurer and Pimchanok Luevisadpaibul.















































and this is one of that movie's quote, Nam is the girl that was roled by Pimchanok Luevisadpaibul.
so can you imagine how romantic this movie is?? 
well you've to watch it, i guess. c ya :)



"Every one of us has someone who is hidden in the bottom of our heart. And when we think of that person, we feel like

there's always a little pain inside. But we still want to keep that person. Even though I don't know where he is today, what he is doing, I know that he is the one who taught me this. A crazy little thing called LOVE."

-NAM-

Selasa, 06 Desember 2011

Back To December

hello. sorry fr not visiting this blog for so long times. well, i've so many things to do, it's all about college stuffs and something like that actually,,,
alright i think i should say welcome December and goodbye November. well it's like taylor swift's song - "BACK TO DECEMBER" , i'd like to back to december as Tay swift sings..
here is the lyric :
I'm so glad you made time to see me
How's life? Tell me, how's your family?
I haven't seen them in a while

You've been good, busier than ever
We small talk, work and the weather
Your guard is up, and I know why

Because the last time you saw me
Is still burned in the back of your mind
You gave me roses, and I left them there to die

So this is me swallowing my pride
Standing in front of you, saying I'm sorry for that night
And I go back to December all the time

It turns out freedom ain't nothing but missing you
Wishing I'd realized what I had when you were mine
I go back to December, turn around and make it alright
I go back to December all the time

These days, I haven't been sleeping
Staying up, playing back myself leaving
When your birthday passed, and I didn't call

Then I think about summer, all the beautiful times
I watched you laughing from the passenger side
And realized I loved you in the fall

And then the cold came, the dark days
When fear crept into my mind
You gave me all your love, and all I gave you was goodbye

So this is me swallowing my pride
Standing in front of you, saying I'm sorry for that night
And I go back to December all the time

It turns out freedom ain't nothing but missing you
Wishing I'd realized what I had when you were mine
I go back to December, turn around and change my own mind
I go back to December all the time

I miss your tan skin, your sweet smile
So good to me, so right
And how you held me in your arms that September night
The first time you ever saw me cry

Maybe this is wishful thinking
Probably mindless dreaming
But if we loved again, I swear I'd love you right

I'd go back in time and change it, but I can't
So if the chain is on your door, I understand

This is me swallowing my pride
Standing in front of you, saying I'm sorry for that night
And I go back to December

It turns out freedom ain't nothing but missing you
Wishing I'd realized what I had when you were mine
I go back to December, turn around and make it alright
I go back to December, turn around and change my own mind
I go back to December all the time, all the time

Jumat, 11 November 2011

11 - 11- 11

Hell - oooooooooooooooooooooooo my beloved blog! <3
how's life?
sorry for not post anything these days have been lately.
i was so crazy with all those campus stuffs, tasks, mid tests and so on.


and today i'm back. well, today is 11-11-11 , that's really a unique date.
the date like that happens only about every 823 years.
that's so amazing!
well, today is also my ex's birthday. i've already said happy birthday to him through twitter and facebook.
honestly i still get butterflies when i see him,
but unfortunately we're in different college and the distant from my home to his are 2 km.


then i'm so happy when he replies my tweet which i sent to him for saying happy birthday.
then he replied like this :
Makasih :d RT : happy birthday  @novaldjatie .. wish you all the best :)


okay, although he just say thanks to me and typed an emoticon like :d but it was a really great thing which happens today, cause our relation is getting worse since we were through .


okay i wish everything in my life is going well today.
i hope you  who visit my blog feel so ^_^.
goodbye! C ya! ^_^w

Minggu, 25 September 2011

Friendship Quotes

alright, remembering my best friends who's already out there, somewhere far way in Jogjakarta, make me wanna post an entry about friendship quotes. okay, let's see... :)

* A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgoten the words.
* good friends are like stars. you don't always see them, but you know they're always there!
* Friends are like walls. sometimes you lean on them, and sometimes it's just enough to know they are there.
* Friends are the flowers in the garden of life.
* A true friend LAUGHS at your stories even when they are not so good. and SYMPHATIZES with your troubles even when they are not so bad ( Arnold H. Glasgow)

* A friend knows the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails.  (Donna Roberts)
* If you're alone, I'll be your shadow.  If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder.  If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow.  If you need to be happy, I'll be your smile.  But anytime you need a friend, I'll just be me.  ~Author Unknown
* A true friend is one who thinks you are a good egg even if you are half-cracked.  ~Author Unknown
*
There are big ships and small ships.  But the best ship of all is friendship.  ~Author Unknown
* A friend accepts us as we are yet helps us to be what we should.  ~Author Unknown
* Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.  ~Oprah Winfrey
*When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.  The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.  ~Henri Nouwen
* Lean on me, when you're not strong, and I'll be your friend, I'll help you carry on, for it won't be long, 'til I'm going to need somebody to lean on."
- "Lean On Me" 

* In good times, in bad times I'll be on your side forever more, that's what friends are for."
- "That's what friends are for" 

* Thats what a friend is for, when your lost in darkness and searching for the light, to help you through those lonely nights, when everything around you fails just hold out your hand, and i'll come running, thats what a friend is for."
-Marty Keith 

* "If I had only one friend left, i'd want it to be you."
-Paul Overstreet. 

* "Every now and then we find a special friend, who never lets us down, who understands it all, reaches out each time you fall, you're the best friend that I've found."
-Jordan Hill - "Remember Me This Way"

* "I'll give you stregnth, I'll give you hope. Keeping your faith that is gone. And the one you should call was standing there all along."
- "This I Promise You" -NSync 

* Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow; Don't walk behind me, I may not lead; Walk beside me, and just be my friend. (Albert Camus)
* Treat your friends as you do your pictures, and place them in their best light. (Jennie Jerome Churchill)
* A true friend never gets in your way unless you happen to be going down. (Arnold H. Glasgow)

* Your friends will know you better in the first minute you meet than your acquaintances will know you in a thousand years. (Richard Bach, (Illusions) )

Sabtu, 24 September 2011

so sick

fyuhhh.... -____-||
so i'm here today , back to blogging and post new entry,
but sorry i don't post any quotes on this entry.

sorry for not back to blogging in very long time, but seriously i've been got so many things to do these days lately.
cuz now i'm not a senior high student anymore, but i'm a college student! yaay!
that's really fun and cool when you got that predicate as a COLLEGE STUDENT~!
it's so cool! isn't it? haha LOL.
okay forget about it.


firstly i'm so thankful to the God cuz i could be a college student now!
yeah, i'm a midwifery student now.
i got accepted in Sari Mulia Heath Institute.
but then when i've already walk on this way, i'm tired of this all!

almost everyday the lecturer give us task and homework!
that's really uncool n absolutely NOT FUNNY, right?
fyuhh.. okay whatever.
but  there must be consequences for every choice we choose, right?
and i've already chosed it, so i've to do it patiently -____-||.
alright, see ya on the next entry ^_^v!

Kamis, 11 Agustus 2011

wonderful Indonesia

hello! hai! wie gehts dir? ogenki desuka? ni hao ma? gamsahamnida for visiting my blog.
today, i don't wanna post some quotes as i were used to do,
but i wanna post  an entry about my beloved country, Indonesia.


first, i wanna ask you all,
have you ever gone to Indonesia?
if yes, you are absolutely lucky one :),
if not, i believe you have to try that!

okay,,, you might not believe what i said, but i'm pretty sure you have to check some photos below, it's totally beautiful landscape from my beloved country, Indonesia.

okay the first picture is a beach, which is called as KUTA beach. It is located in Bali. Bali is one of Islands in Indonesia.

and the picture below is sanur beach which is also located in Bali.

and the picture below is the tourism place in Lombok.
it is senggigi beach.


the picture below is Bunaken National Marine Park which is located in Bunaken.

and the picture below is Raja Ampat, one of tourism place in Indonesia which is located in Papua.

and the picture below is also one of tourism place in Indonesia, Floating Market. It is located in Banjarmasin, South Borneo, Indonesia.



they are extremely beautiful, aren't they?? Indonesia has so many another beautiful tourism places that you can visit in. so what are you waiting for?

VISIT INDONESIA :)

Sabtu, 09 Juli 2011

broken heart quotes (again)

i'm back to blogging!
i dont know why i like to post an entry about broken heart,
but just check this out....



  • Love is a lot like a backache, it doesn't show up on X-rays, but you know it's there.
  • Giving up doesn’t always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go. ~Author Unknown
  • I don’t know why they call it heartbreak. It feels like every other part of my body is broken too. ~Missy Altijd
  • I never knew until that moment how bad it could hurt to lose something you never really had. ~From the television show The Wonder Years
  • I think about you constantly, whether it’s with my mind or my heart. ~Albany Bach Reid
  • You left, and my heart is a ceaseless sermon of loneliness. ~Jaesse Tyler
  • Let your tears come. Let them water your soul. ~Eileen Mayhew
  • "Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never met."
  • "Real loss only occurs when you lose something that you love more than yourself.
  • "A break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself trying to fix it."
  • Looking back, I have this to regret, that too often when I loved, I did not say so.
    ~ David Grayson
  • One of the hardest things you'll ever have to do is to stop loving someone because they've stopped loving you.
  • Even if he doesn't like me tomorrow, I knew he loved me yesterday.
  • The wounds of love can only be healed by the one who made them.
  • Never long for anyone from the past. There is a reason why they never made it to your future.
  • Nobody deserves your tears, but whoever deserves them will not make you cry. - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
  • To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful. - Bess Myerson
  • True love burns the brightest, but the brightest flames leave the deepest scars.
  • "In my dreams, you're mine forever. In reality, you're hers forever."
  • One day you’re going to wake up and realize how special she is — and when that day comes, she’ll be waking up next to the guy who already knew.
  • Where my future leads, I don't know. But if you're not there, I don't want to go.
  • Sometimes the memories are worth the pain.
  • Breaking up is just like having the worst nightmare after having the best dream.
  • Every love gone wrong is one step closer to your own true love.
  • He looked deeply into my eyes, he lied and said "I'll never make you cry", and when I thought it was too good to be true, he blew me off and found someone new.
  • The hottest love has the coldest end.
  • The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love someone else. 
  • I don’t miss him, I miss who I thought he was.
  • Life without love is a life without meaning.
  • A million words couldn’t bring you back, I know because I’ve tried. Neither could a million tears, I know because I’ve cried.
  • Sunsets remind me that life is still beautiful without him.
  • When forever is through, then I'll be over you.
  • Tears are the words the heart can't express.
  • You taught me how to love, but not how to stop.
  • The hardest part of loving someone is knowing when to let go, and knowing when to say goodbye.
  • The only person who can make me smile, made me cry.
  • Love is on the lips of many, but in the hearts of a few.
  • Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.
  • Once upon a time I was falling in love, but now I'm only falling apart.
  • If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.
  • Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
  • It's better to be with no one than to be with the wrong one.
  • Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
  • Don't cry when the sun is gone, because the tears won't let you see the stars.
  • When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal.
  • When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.
  • Time goes by, life goes on; and all I can think of is why you're gone.
  • God can heal a broken heart, but you have to give Him all the pieces. 
  • "Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too.” Will Smith
  • Sometimes we need to be hurt in order to grow. We must fail in order to know.
    We must lose in order to gain. Some lessons are learned best through pain.
  • Someday you'll love me. Someday you'll care. Someday you'll treasure the moments we've shared. Someday you'll learn, love is not a game. Then you'll realize, I'm not the same. My heart will have left you, my love will have died. Then you'll realize the tears I've cried. Someday you'll love, someday you'll care, someday you'll want me and I won't be there
  • "I thought I loved him, but he had to break my heart for me to know what true love really is."
  • "Time goes by, life goes on, and all I can think of is why you're gone."
  • "I always knew I would look back on my tears and laugh; but I never knew I would look back at my laughter and cry."
  • God can heal a broken heart, but He has to have all the pieces.”
    - Author Unknown
  • To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful.”
    - Bess Myerson
  • Love is unconditional, relationships are not.”
    - Grant Gudmundson
  • Sadness flies away on the wings of time.”
    - Jean de La Fontaine
  • It hurts to breathe because every breath I take proves I can't live without you.”
    - Author Unknown
  • God is closest to those with broken hearts.”
    - Jewish Saying
  • Sadness flies on the wings of the morning and out of the heart of darkness comes the light.”
    - Jean Giraudoux
  • Sometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated.”
    - Lamartine
  • Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears.”
    - Marcus Aurelius
  • “...Lost in your heart, lost in your eyes
    Lost every day, no map to follow
    Entire days, weeks, a blur
    Flickers of light, in the darkness,
    Only to be enveloped in shadows once more...”

    - Peter Winstanley
  • “In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.”
    - Mignon McLaughlin
  • What is the opposite of two? A lonely me, a lonely you.”
    - Richard Wilbur
  • A life with love will have some thorns, but a life without love will have no roses.”
    - Author Unknown
  • Have you ever been hurt and the place tries to heal a bit, and you just pull the scar off of it over and over again.”
    - Rosa Parks
  • I hate the day, because it lendeth light
    To see all things, but not my love to see.”

    - Edmund Spenser
  • Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go.”
    - Author Unknown
  • If we must part forever,
    Give me but one kind word to think upon,
    And please myself with, while my heart's breaking.”

    - Thomas Otway
  • Walking, working, barely breathing
    My thoughts, far away
    Heart aching, mind racing
    Sleep does not come easily, nor last long...”

    - Peter Winstanley 
  • If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.”
    - Unknown Author

Minggu, 26 Juni 2011

Missing You Quotes

today i wanna share some quotes which reflects my feeling right now, how much i miss him >.<

  • you come to mind morningly, nightly, and noonly. i wish i could see you this minute or soonly..
  • one day i caught myself smiling for no reason, then i realized i was thinking of you.
  • I might not get to see you as often as I'd like, I may not get to hold you in my arms at night, but deep in my heart I know that it's true. No matter what happens... I will always love you.
  • If you love someone more then anything, then distance only matters to the mind, not to the heart.
  • The worst way to miss someone is when they are right beside you and yet you know you can never have them.
  • Love is missing someone whenever you're apart, but some how feeling warm inside because you're close in heart.
  • Can miles truly separate you...? If you want to be with someone you love, aren't you already there?
  • Everytime I think of you
    I always catch my breath
    I'm still standing here
    And your miles away
    And I wonder why you left me
    And there's a storm that's raging through my frozen heart tonight
     
  • I hear your name in certain circles
    And it always makes me smile
    I spent my time just thinkin about you
    And its almost driving me wild
     
  • Goodbyes always hurt whether it's the right thing to do or not.
  • You do something to me that I can't explain, so would I be out of line if I said I miss you?
  • It's been quite awhile... I must say I miss our friendship. I miss you, but what I really miss the most is not just you or us but how it all was.
  • I miss the talks we used to have, I miss the voice I used to hear... I miss hearing your crazy but cool stories, and above all these... I just miss you!
  • I often catch myself constantly wondering how you are, sitting alone with my mind set so far, reminiscing about your smile, voice and touch, damn this life... I'm missing you too much!  
  • I called because I wanted you to know that despite everything that' happened and all the miles between us right now, I still think about the way it was in the beginning.
  • Today was just one of those days where everything I did reminded me of you and every song I heard somehow related to you. I hate days like today, because they remind me of the one thing I dont have.
  • I know you've been busy, I had things to do too. We haven't talked for some time, I wonder if everything's fine. I had other stuff on me mind, I'm sure you did too, but I just had to tell you this my friend... hey I miss you.
  • It's YOU. You mean everything to me... you are the first thought in my head in the morning when I wake up; my last thought before I go to bed. You smile at me in my dreams... when you are sad, I fell sad, and when I see your true smile, I feel incredible, like there is no other thing around and all I can see is you.
  • The best feeling in the world is to be millions of miles away and still be able to picture his eyes.
  • A day without you is like a day without sunshine... I miss you...
    -- Author Unknown
  • I miss you like the sun misses the flowers, like the sun misses the flowers in the depths of winter, instead of beauty to direct it's light to, the heart hardens like the frozen world which your absence has banished me to.
    -- William in "A Knight's Tale"
  • If I never met you, I wouldn't like you. If I didn't like you, I wouldn't love you. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you. But I did, I do, and I will.
    -- Author Unknown
  • I'm a fish out of water without you.
    -- Author Unknown
     
  • Nothing makes the earth seem so spacious as to have friends at a distance; they make the latitudes and longitudes.
    -- Henry David Thoreau
    Sometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated.
    -- Lamartine
  • Time goes by a lot slower when you miss the one you love.
    -- Author Unknown
  • What shall I do with all the days and hours
    That must be counted ere I see thy face?
    How shall I charm the interval that lowers
    Between this time and that sweet time of grace?
    -- Frances Anne Kemble
          
  • When I miss you, I don't have to go far ... I just have to look inside my heart because that's where I'll find you.
    -- Ruthie
  • When I miss you, sometimes I listen to music or look at pictures of you, not to remind me of you but to make me feel as if I'm with you. It makes me forget the distance and capture you.
    -- James
     
  • You may be out of my sight... but never out of my mind... I Miss You!
    -- Anonymous
  • " They say when you are missing someone that they are probably feeling the same, but I don't think it's possible for you to miss me as much as I'm missing you right now." 
  • " If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden."
  • " Missing someone gets easier every day because even though it's one day further from the last time you saw each other, it's one day closer to the next time you will." 
  • " Missing you could turn from pain to pleasure, if I knew you were missing me too." 
  • " I try to talk to you, but I don't know what to say. I am afraid you don't want me to say anything. So I don't. But inside of me there are words waiting to come out. And tell you how I feel-like how I miss you. And how I love you despite my broken heart. And how I need you in my life. And especially how much I want you. But those words may forever stay in my heart-locked inside. Sometimes I wonder if there are words locked inside you too... but I'll never know."
  • Minutes slowly go by as the precious thoughts of us being together once again remain in my mind. The comforting images of you takes hold of my soul and through my eyes I visualize the time I had with you before you had to go; taking a part of me with you.I realize I need you so much because I love you. There's no other person I'd rather be with, no other person I'd rather be loved by, no other person I'd rather love or miss than you! Baby I miss you!!!
  • I think of you with every waking moment of my life and dream of you with every dream that I have; I miss you.   
  • Having no communication with you for awhile is like drinking coffee without sugar, it's not complete or should I say my life is not complete when you are not here beside me. I miss you. 
  • Days go by so fast, not a day do I not think of you. Missing you is the hardest part of my days, my days without you..
  • i always knew looking back on the tears would make me laugh. but i never knew looking back on the laughs would make me cry. i guess i'm just missing the old times... miss you.
  • " I miss you when something really good happens, because you are the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you are the one who understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry because I know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but I miss you most when I lay awake at night and think of all the wonderful times we spent with each other, for those were some of the best times of my life.”
  • " You have no idea what it feels like to go every day feeling like your missing something."
  • "Missing you is a very small word, the extent of which is felt when the winds strike my door and i feel you passing by." 
  • You're my awakening sunshine, you're my bed-time moon lit light, you're my everything but not yourself, why be so cruel?
  • " Some people say the worst way to miss someone is when they are right next to you and know you can't have them, but it's worse when you thought you didn't want them anymore and then all of a sudden you realize you can't live without them." 
  • " Time goes by so fast, people go in and out of your life. You must never miss the opportunity to tell these people how much they mean to you.”
  • " I miss you most when I'm sad. I miss you when I'm lonely. But most of all, I miss you when I'm happy."
  • " There is one pain I often feel, which you will never know. It's caused by the absence of you." 
  • I tried to convince myself I didn't want you anymore.
    I just can't let go.
    I don't want to see you move on, but I'm not doing much about it either.
    You're two different people and I wish it would stop, because I'm living to die and dieing to live, but it doesnt mean a thing to me, until I have you. I felt so good when I was with you, you made me feel like the world; to hear i was your favorite and the best you ever had. You were not ashamed and would hold my hand anywhere. We'd talk on the phone for hours, and everytime we kissed it felt like i was dreaming. Love felt like heaven when I was with you; and now that you're gone im hurting like hell. I miss you so much, and I wish you were here, but I made the wrong choice and its too late, too many mistakes had been made and i lost you, forever -- but you didnt loose my love because i loved you ever since the day i met you. and ill never forget you, because to me, you are the WORLD
  • Everyday i think of you.
    Everyday you cross my mind.
    Everyday i see something that reminds me of you.
    Everyday im missing you.
    Everyday i wish you were mine.
    Everyday i wonder what could of been.
    Everyday i think of why you did this.
    & everyday im getting stronger.
    Everyday im moving on.
    But everyday ill always miss you.
  • missing someone isn't about how long is been since you've seen each other or the amount to time since you've talked. Its about that very moment when your doing something and you wish they were right there with you every time
  • I'm not alone, but I am lonely without you.
  • " I miss you more today than yesterday, but not as much as tomorrow."

Jumat, 24 Juni 2011

ngisi bullbo yuk...

Masih inget ngga sih waktu jaman-jamannya ngerjain bulletin board di Friendster?
ingat gak?
kalo gak inget, isi deh kuis dibawah buit ngingetin tentang bullbo
up to you mau kerjain di comments, di blog sendiri, di kertas atau dimana, dan jawab sekreatif mungkin atau seasal mungkin. tapi kalo bisa sih di comment, huahaha.

Tentang Seseorang :


1. Siapa yang ada di background handphone kamu?
2. Siapa orang terakhir yang kamu sms?
3. Siapa orang terakhir yang kamu bbm?
4. Siapa orang terakhir yang kamu telpon?
5. Siapa orang yang sekarang ada di sebelah kamuuu hiii...
6. Siapa temen kamu yang baru aja ulang tahun?
7. Siapa sih temen yang setiap hari kamu ajak ngobrol?
8. Kenapa dia?
9. Kalo kamu punya duit 100rb, kamu mau traktir siapa dan apa?
10. Siapa temen kamu yang pernah bikin kamu nangis?


Tentang Kamu :


11. Kebiasaan kamu yang patut ditiru orang lain apa sih?
12. Kalo kamu mau ngupil bilang-bilang dulu ngga?
13. Biasanya kamu buang upil kemana?
14. Apa sih kebiasaan buruk kamu?
15. Bunyi kentut kamu biasanya gimana sih?
16. Binatang apa sih yang menggambarkan kamu bangedh?
17. Alat musik yang bisa kamu mainin?
18. Biasanya mandi berapa kali sehari?
19. Benda dari seseorang yang sampe sekarang masih kamu simpen? apa? dari siapa?
20. Benda yang lagi kamu pengenin banget?


Tentang Sekolah / Waktu Sekolah :


21. SMP/SMA mana? (pilih salah satu)
22. Nilai paling bagus pelajaran apa?
23. Kalo jajan ke kantin beli apa?
24. Berapa uang jajannya waktu itu?
25. Pernah jadian ngga waktu itu? sama?
26. Guru yang paling kamu benci? kenapa?
27. Pelajaran yang paling kamu ngga suka?
28. Siapa temen kamu yang paling aneh di kelas? kenapa?
29. Gebetan kamu waktu itu?
30. Yang paling kamu kangenin dari sekolah?


Tentang Si Dia :


31. Gebetan / Pacar?
32. Siapa tuh namanya berani sebut ngga?
33. Kenal dimana?
34. Tau makanan kesukannya ngga?
35. Kira-kira dia lagi ngapain ya sekarangg?
36. Kenapa sih kamu suka sama dia?
37. Dia unyu banget kalo lagi ngapain sih?
38. Lagu yang kamu dan dia banget?
39. Terakhir kali ketemu dia kapan? dimana?
40. Pengen banget pergi kemana sih sama dia?


Tentang lain-lain :


41. Pengen banget bisa ngelakuin apa?
42. Pengen banget pergi ke negara apa?
43. Sesuatu yang pengen banget kamu punya/beli?
44. Pekerjaan impian kamu?
45. Artis favorit kamu?
46. Kalo skrg kamu bisa ketemu sama siapa aja, pengen ketemu siapa?
47. Orang pertama yang kamu follow di twitter?
48. Benda kesayangan kamu yang ilang?
49. Sesuatu yang kamu jago banget ngelakuinnya?
50. -- bonus question -- isi sendiri --

(didapat dari http://www.benablog.com/)

mumet

sumpe deh,, bener2 mumet nih kelapa, eh kepala, gara2 barusan dimarahin papa.

n tau gak dimarahin karena apa?
karena pulang malem!
yaaa ok, ini salah aku juga.
untungnya gak nyampe 5 menit, ya udah deh, gak perlu bertele-tele berpanjang-panjang ria buat nyeramahin aku.
aku tau kok aku yang salah.

tapi hari ini hari yg beda, tau kenapa?
karena ada event yg diadakan temen aku , Max, seorang siswa pertukaran pelajar dari Jerman.
dia invite aku, yasir ,gilvy, de el el buat datang ke acara perisahannya dia yang diadakan hari ini karena tgl 26 dia mesti ke jakarta buat stay in end of orientation atau apalah namanya, pokoknya semacam camp orientasi buat mengakhiri masa-masa mereka di Indonesia.
oke lanjuuuut...
sebelumnya gue mau kenalin dulu nih yang namanya max, nama lengkapnya Max Julian Gerlach , tapi kalo nama banjarnya Imak Soerodjo. he's one of exchange student from Germany.
ini nih fotonya :

foto itu diambil gak lama pas dia masuk ke SMAN 3 Banjarmasin, my beloved senior high school.
(taken on Sept 16th, 2010) , dia baru masuk sekolah pas tgl 15 sept. bener2 cepet akrab kan gue sama dia? ya karena gue orangnya supel gitu deh *mulai narsis* ^__^v
hahahaha
padahal dia adik kelas aku loooh.. susah deh jadi orang yang supel kayak gue huahaha *narsislagi*
oke lanjuuuut...
pas aku, gilvy, yasir n aya tiba di rumah max, tuh kursi2 masih banyak yg kosong, yaa bisa dihitung pake jari laah berapa orangnya yg ada disana. dan seperti acara-acara lainnya, jam mulainya itu LELET sumpah!
aku tuh udah gelisah sebenarnya, since i know my parents, especially my father is an overprotective  person.
tapi yang namanya NEBENG a.k.a NUMPANG yaa mesti tau diri dong, masa orang yang numpang nyuruh orang yang punya mobil supaya cepat-cepat pulang? gak etis banget ya kan? yaa kurang lebih gak tau diri lah kalo aku bertindak kayak gitu.
acara  mulai jam 17:55 WITA , terus pas jam 18:25 itu udah ishoma (istirahat,sholat,makan), ya udah , langsung deh aku, yasir, gilvy dan aya capcus menuju mesjid terdekat buat sholat maghrib, tapi kita makan jagung bakar dulu, ya udah aku mesan aja rasa asin-pedas, ternyata eh ternyata pedasnya ampun deh, PEDAS BANGET! , padahal biasanya jagung bakar yang biasa gue santap itu kalo pedas ya gak terlalu pedas banget lah..
kita makan jagung pas otw ke mesjid. pas tiba di mesjid, tuh jagung gue belum abis2 aja. ya kita langsung cepet2 deh makan jagung, terus mnuju tempat wudhu di mesjid tersebut. tempat wudhu nya buat cewek dan cowok terpisah. aku sih ngikutin aya aja coz dia yang lebih tau daerah sini secara dia tinggal gak jauh dari tempat max tinggal, cuma beda komplek. pas tiba di sana udah banyak tuh adik kelas yang ngantri buat wudhu, (secara kan adik2 kelas ini temen2 seelasnya max, makanya diundang juga), ya udah, gue dengan sabarya nunggu. gue persilahkan tuh aya duluan secara dia emang lebih dulu nyampe di tempat wudhu dibanding gue, selesai aya wudhu , ternyata eh ternyata air nya ati (biasa lah PDAM gitu lohh, pas maghrb malah amti'in air, capee deh -____-|||) , yah terpaksa tuh gue nunda dulu wudhu nya. gue cek tuh kran, gue nyalain ledengnya, terus gue mati'in lagi , berharap ada perubahan, eh ternyata malah gak ada, tetap aja tuh air mati. en ternyata yasir juga ngalamin hal yang sama, pas aku liat ke tempat wudhu cowok, terus yasir coba tuh keran disana, dia cek, akhirnya tuh air mau jalan meskipun super duper dikit en bentar2 mati, terus mesti dibenerin lagi, akhirnya dia selesai wudhu, terus ya aku wudhu juga.
selesai shlat kita langsung go back ke rumahnya max, udah berdendang berdangdutan ria perut-perut kami. terus kami pergi ke stan bakso, langsung deh kita ngambil mangkok2 yang udah diisi bakso disana, ngambil air, trus kembali ke tempat duduk kami tadi. acara berlangsung terus dari jam 19:05 WITA. gue masih tenang tuh, soalnya belum dapat sms "peringatan" dari kakak gue, jam 19:30 udah mulai tuh HP gue bergetar mulu, ada sms nyuruh cepat pulang. ya gue ngerasa gelisah lah, terus gue bilang aja bentar lagi mau pulang. jam 20:00 udah, tuh sms2 balik lagi. nyuruh cepat pulang lagi karena Papa udah nyari2 aku. oh my god. aku bilang lagi, bentar lagi mau pulang. jam 20:10 gilvy ngajakin kita pulang, ya udah kita semua setuju, terus kata Aya, kita foto2 dulu sama max untuk yang terakhir kalinya. Gila, gue jadi sedih denger kata2 ini. secara gue udah lumayan dekat lah sama max, dia udah aku anggap kayak adik sendiri gitu :'(

terus kita nyari'in max en pas ketemu, langsung deh kita foto2 sama dia.
n habis itu langsung cap cus pulang. pertama-tama nganterin aya dulu. jam udah menunjukkan jam 20:20 WITA, gue gugup, coz gue bilang paling lambat pulang jam 9 malam. ya udah gue tenangin diri, en berdoa semoga bisa pulang tepat jam 9 atau kurang. eh ternyata mobil yasir malah meluncur ke arah berlawanan, malah makin jauh nih ceritanya >.< , katanya dia mau jemput mamanya dulu di rumah kakaknya, ya udah aku ikut aja, yang namanya numpang, gak bisa protes dong,,,

nyampai di rumah kakaknya jam udah menunjukkan 20:35 WITA, jantung gue berdetak makin cepat, gelisah. jam 20:50 kita pulang emnuju rumah yasir karena motor gue titipin di sana. jam 21:05 WITA udah nyampai di rumah yasir, abis pamit sama mamanya yasir langsung deh gue cap cus, tapi gak nyampe ngebut sih, coz gue takut kalo-kalo kecelakaan lagi. jam 21:15 nyampai di rumah, udah ada mama yang nungguin kedatangan aku di depan rumah. aduh gue takut setengah mati dah tuh >.< . trus gue masukin motor ke garasi, pas mau nutup pintu, papa datang. terus nanya ," kenapa pulang malem banget kayak gini?"
ya udah aku jawab aja sekenanya ,"habis,,,, acaranya baru mulai jam 17:30..."
"jangan pulang malam lagi!" kata papa
ya udah aku diam aja.
masuk kamar, kakak gue bilang, "kata Papa, kamu gak boleh jalan-jalan lagi,"
langsung tuh hati gue kayak dipukul pake gamelan , "WHAT???? gue yang udah jarang jalan-jalan, malah dilarang jalan-jalan? oh my god."
"jangan pulang malam lagi, kalo mau jalan2. terus tinggalin nomor HP temen kamu juga kalo mau jalan."
dalam hati gue bilang ,"tuh kaaan... overprotective! tapi ya udahlah itu semua demi kebaikan gue juga,." :D


oke buat ngeakhirin nih entry, gue mau bagi2 quote yang asli bikinan gue sendiri, kalo menurut elo gak bagus, ya udah, kan gue emang bukan penyair, penulis lagu, orang yang puitis, ok, just check this out : apapun yang dilakukan orangtua kalian, termasuk marah-marah sekalipun, itu semua demi kebaikan kita juga. jadi jangan pernah menganggap kalo ortu cuma bisa marah2 sama kita. tapi coba lah berfikir dari sisi positifnya kalo semuanya mereka lakukan untuk kita, untuk kebaikan kita :)

Selasa, 21 Juni 2011

good friend could be the worst enemy

hey my blog! a 'place' where i post my thoughts or anything i want :)
today i wanna share my experience.
and it's about bullying.
have you ever being a victim of bullying ?
if your answer is yes, so we have one thing in common cuz i've ever got bullying too.
and the worse fact is i got it when i was in elementary school. so damn bad right?
how can the bullies are still children?cause the bullies are usually teenager.
but this is the fact!
i will tell it to you who are visiting my blog and read this post.

okay, now i'm 18 years old. and this bad thing happened to me when i was about 11 or 12 years old.
so it happened in 6-7 years ago.
actually i'm "easy to forgive hard to forget" person.
but it doesnt mean that i'm a spiteful person, but i just can't forget all bad things that i've ever got.
firstly i wanna define what does bullying  mean.


as i got from http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/bully.htm


Bullying is persistent unwelcome behaviour, mostly using unwarranted or invalid criticism, nit-picking, fault-finding, also exclusion, isolation, being singled out and treated differently, being shouted at, humiliated, excessive monitoring, having verbal and written warnings imposed, and much more. In the workplace, bullying usually focuses on distorted or fabricated allegations of underperformance.

so my experience may not define as bullying but also can't define as a little disturbance since i  who ever got it thinks that it cant defined as a little disturbance which done by your 'friends'.


okay let me tell you about that.
i was in sixth grade in elementary school. sixth grade is the highest grade in elementary school in indonesia. and it means if we wanna continue to junior high school we have to pass national exam first. 
at that grade, i have some friends. i was the smartest person at my class ( doesn't mean to compliment my self, but i just wanna give you the fact). i have some girl friends. and a few of them are the bullies.
first i wanna explain why it happened. two friends of mine are the evidence. just call them as C and R.

on the left is C, and on the right is R.
  
my elementary school was at a school complex that consists of 4 schools.4 schools are SDN melayu 4, melayu 9, melayu 3, and melayu 2. and my school was SDN Melayu 4. okay continue to my story. C and R are like most of another 'almost teenager' people have their Puppy Love. their puppy love are pupils at SDN melayu 9. C's puppy love is a little bit cute guy. he was used to wear a hat on his head. C and R introduced me to him. i can't lie my self, he's a lil' bit cute. but it doesnt mean that i have a crush on him. just interested, ok?
ok, just call him as W. and then W and I were a lil'' bit more closer. and it made C got jealous to me. then C and R got angry to me. at the beginning they just ignored me. but each day their way to treat me gone to be worse than ever. they embarrased me, they shouted to pupils in melayu 9 who were opposite of us. they told everyone who are pupils at melayu 9 that i loved W. while honestly i didnt!




each day their way treating me was gone worse. every day they said bad names to me.  they asked people to not make friends with me. and then i became a person without any friends by my side. but i was still be patient, hope that they would be better to me someday, wish they would say sorry to me.

luckily i still have two friends whose named as Eka and Yanti. the pic below is Eka's pic, i can't find Yanti's.



and then they (C and R) became so unreasonable.they hidden my book which i need to  learn. the book is really needed for me. i have a book which called as LKS and it's for exercise to face national exam. but they were so dare to me. they were so mean to me. they hidden it when i went out the class to buy something to eat or drink during the break time. after that the bell rang. we had to go back to our class. and then  when the lesson started, and the LKS is needed to learn, i couldnt find it in my bag. while i was so sure that i brought it on that day. and the teacher asked me, "do you bring it wina?"
and i said, "i'm so sure i bring it, but i couldnt find it ma'am and i dont know why."
then the teacher said,"just say that you dont bring it, dont give a reason."
i just kept silent. i was so sure about that.
then i borrowed my friend's LKS , and i copied it. 
and after more than one week i learn with the LKS in fotocopy version, my friend whose named is Yanti told me that on that day i lost the LKS she saw C and R took something in my bag. and hide it in drawer of teacher's desk. i opened it directly and i found my LKS. i found that!
since the day i really hate them! i couldnt believe that people who were good friends could be the worst enemies.
  then, on the graduation day R said sorry to me. i forgive her but i couldnt forget what she has done to me. unfortunately C didnt.



as the pic on left side said SAY NO TO BULLYING. if you're the bullies , please stop it. you may not realize how much misery you made to the victims.






this is my story, how about yours?